How to Get Child Visitation on Your Terms

During the divorce proceedings it should be determined which parent will be given custody of the children. The other parent (non-custodial), will be given child visitation rights.

Normally the visitation schedule is prepared at the final divorce agreement and uses input from both parents. When developed, this schedule gives the non-custodial parent visiting rights to his or her children. It is rare if one parent is not allowed to see their child so unless the family court finds reason to object, child visitation rights is almost always guaranteed to the non-custodial parent.

The courts are giving both parents the ability to develop a healthy relationship with their children by allowing visitation rights. Should a change be needed to the schedule then it can be accomplished using a court order. A number of factors could cause this to happen… like a major change in circumstances or the inappropriate conduct of one parent.

In some cases where the parents fail to reach an agreement on sharing time with their children, it is up to the courts to set a visitation schedule. A court ordered schedule will set forth the times and places for visitation. Instead of allowing visitation access to both parents, the courts may decide it is in the best interest of the child to grant sole custody to only one parent. This could occur if the court determines the child would be seriously endangered visiting with the non-custodial parent.

But the courts prefer child development utilizing both parents so they seldom prohibit visitation to a parent. However, it is not unrealizable for the court to place certain requirements on the visitation restrictions such as requiring the supervision by a third-party, or require it occur at a specific time and location.

The visitation schedule is most importance for the non-custodial parent. The following tips will help insure that your child visitation rights continue without any problems.

Schedule Visitation Transfers

The courts may have ordered the visitation transfers to occur at a certain time and location but usually the parents have decided what works best for them. You, as a parent, should try to always be prompt when picking up or returning your child. Please do not cause a delay. It is possible that one parent may have a scheduled event planned and delays at visitation transfer will only cause further conflict.

All Important Vacation and Holiday Schedule

It is important to work together on creating the holiday visitation schedule. You will need to be flexible with these schedules. Handle holidays like Mothers Day and Fathers Day carefully. They have special meaning so the visitatations should be scheduled likewise. Be flexible when it comes to the Thanksgiving and Christmas vacation and holidays too. The parents usually have to share the children more during these holidays. Spring breaks and summer vacations also allow a great time to share the kids and introduce them to new and challenging activities.

Focus on the Child

Working toward the best interest of the child should be most important for both parents. Keeping and maintaining a close and loving relationship with their parents is still very important to the children of divorced parents. Your most important task should be to keep the visitations interesting, enjoyable and mostly for the benefit of your child.

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